Cana Dream Team

The group session… the group bible study… is an amazing thing but difficult at first. . Women are protective! We don’t like people to see the mess under the surface.  We don’t like to share because we think our problems are small compared to someone else’s problems. And they may be, but that does not mean they are not hard and they aren’t real problems for you! I recently found a group of women that all have struggles of their own. They all are seeking Christ and building lasting friendships built on a foundation of Christ.  I never really thought about there being a difference but there is.. These ladies offer support and prayers. They don’t really give advice but provide a soft spot to land and a sounding board, which really is all we want a lot of the times! Your walk is your walk and my walk is my walk... Meaning your hardships are yours and mine are different from yours. The one time this stuck out to me most was when I was at one of my first women...

Are you being invited to church?  Did you go? If not, why? I know!!  Because you were too tired, you were too busy, you aren’t into church right now.  Whatever the reason, I am sure you have one. I had one too at one time. Now I think those were silly reasons, but I get it!! The most popular excuse -and mine for a long time — is wanting to sleep.  Are you too tired? You are tired because you are working too hard trying to do everything.  You are too tired because you worry all night instead of sleeping. You are too tired because you are trying too hard for no reason. You are trying to be God.  That's not your department.  You are not in charge of everything.  You cannot keep all the “balls in the air” at the same time.  You cannot help everyone and help yourself at the same time. You cannot be all things to all people.  You cannot control all things at all times. You cannot be God. I figured all that out from go...

Today can be a terrible day.  Today can be a day you wish you never had to see.  Today can be a monumental day with great pain. Today can be a day with just too much to do!  Today can be loaded with stress and mistakes. Today can be a day where you feel like the bug, not the windshield! Today is the only day you have to make it through, though.  Just today. Sometimes the only task in life is to make it through the day. During these days you need God, but the most of you feel like he has left you.  God has not left you. Then why did this terrible awful thing happen? I don’t know, but one day you will know. We are not supposed to know all the reasons why.   God can calm the storm.  You can feel peace in great chaos.  You have to ask for it though, and you have to be willing to receive it.  What does that mean or look like? Well for me, it looks like taking a moment in my head to say “Lord, help me with this” and yo...

I may be a closet procrastinator. If I am not in the mood to do something I can find a million reasons why I can’t...or didn’t… Especially in my personal life.  When someone asks why haven’t you done _______? Or what’s the hold up? Or what’s the deal? Boy, I am full of excuses… Are you?    Work, for me, is different most of the time..  I don’t have the luxury of dragging my feet much.  At work, everything is on a time schedule. If I miss the schedule, things are worse for me, so I march on at work, but at home?….or in my personal life?….I can be slow as a snail... I have noticed that when something did not work out as well as I wanted the first time, I tend to sweep it aside.  Exercise - I did not see instant results - that can wait. I am just going to have more clothes to fold tomorrow - those can wait.  It will rain in a day or two - the plants will be fine - opps they died…. For example, I was working on this exact blog...a...

First let me disclose that I have to watch a lot of cartoons.  My two girls, both under 6, control the TV for the most part. I have watched several movies and shows a few dozen times.  Moana is one that I could watch or listen to in the background a few dozen more times. I am inspired by this movie! I am inspired by this movie for several different reasons.  First item up, the little girl is “chosen” by THE OCEAN because she helped a baby sea turtle enter the water safely.  But what she did was help the defenseless. Because she helped for no reason other than to be kind, she was chosen to help save the world!   From that day, Moana feels a tug she cannot explain.  Every path she takes leads her back to the place she longs to be but cannot go.  She wants to leave the island... Moana eventually must follow her path even though others told her no.  She had the courage to go against the crowd and do what was right....

To me, parenting wins are when I know 100% my husband and I are doing the right thing because our child made a good decision.  Report cards come out and grades have improved equals a win! Parenting wins are when you see your child helping someone else for no reason than just to help.   Your kid hits a home run after days and days of practice. When your kid speaks up for the weak. Parenting wins happen when your child overcomes a fear because of your guidance and help!       Your version of a parenting win may be different than mine.  I think whenever you can see your parenting pay off in a positive way, that is a win!    Don’t go nuts and claim your child's achievement as your own, but remind yourself that you helped.  We as parents have thankless jobs -- we can at least thank ourselves quietly from time to time! Rusty and I have high fived more than once and fist bumped to celebrate our parenting wins! ...

Do you want to have more good days than bad?  Do you want to be different? If you want to be different, you should probably change a few things.  If you don’t like how your day is everyday, then change the first thing you do each morning.  Start small. Start with the first thing you think, read, or hear each day... I stumbled upon this truth.  I stumbled upon this when I changed my mornings and realized that almost my whole day was different!  I was happier. Here was my daily morning:  wake up 6:30ish, make coffee, take a bath, and listen to the local news.   Then get myself dressed and get kids dressed all at the same time! Yell and scream and fight all the way out the door... always late and annoyed!   My routine was changed after my husband completed an amazing remodel on our shower!  I mean look at this shower…….. Once ...